Posts Tagged ‘Lena Liu’

Romantic Date Ideas

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

Need some ideas for a romantic date? Anything you do with your significant other should be fun and enjoyable, but a surprise date is a great way to show your significant other that you care deeply for them. Instead of telling them where you’re going, blindfold them and tell them that it’s a surprise! This way, it will be more fun because it’ll give both of you an adrenaline rush! Here are some ideas to start with:
Go cloud-watching! Lie on the grass and tell each other what shapes you see in the sky.
Go out to a fancy restaurant, and talk over delicious food. Go out for ice cream afterwards!
Go to a community playground (Hickory Dickory is a prime choice)! Play hide-and-seek or tag; it might surprise you how much of a kid-at-heart you are.
Rent movies that you both enjoy and have a fun movie night at home! Pop some popcorn and snuggle up.
Go for a picnic in the park. Prepare lunch in a basket and bring a blanket!

There are many more great ideas that would make for an amazing date. Plan something that the both of you will never forget. As long as you take the time to come up with a creative date idea, your significant other is sure to have fun and appreciate what you’ve done for them. Whatever you do, just always remember to show your significant other how much they mean to you while you have the chance.

Work It Out

Friday, January 22nd, 2010

Work it out

Have you ever gotten in a fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend and, at that point in time, you felt like completely giving up? Plenty of us have gone through this, but no matter the reason why you were mad at your boyfriend/girlfriend in the first place, you should try to work things out through communicating. Do not just give up on a relationship because it’s not working temporarily. If you do, you will probably regret doing so sometime in the future. There are things that can be done to fix the problem.
The first step is to think things through. Ask yourself: What is the problem? What can be done to solve it? How does my boyfriend/girlfriend see the issue? Step into the other person’s shoes and try to perceive things as they would.
After carefully thinking things through, the next step is to communicate with your significant other. What things can you say to calm each other down? What fundamental issue caused the fight? What needs to be said, and how should you say these things without hurting your boyfriend/girlfriend? Remember not to be harsh. Especially right after a fight, emotions can be pretty tense on both sides. This means that you should try not to be defensive or to blame your significant other because this will just delay the problem from being resolved. But be sure to get to the root of the problem in order to prevent any future arguments. Try to talk about what can be done to improve your relationship and your understanding of each other. It might take a little courage, but don’t hesitate to apologize, especially if you know where he/she is coming from. It’s not always easy to see things in somebody else’s light, but if you are able to, in the end, your relationship will be stronger.
Remember: you fight with the people you care most about because those are the relationships worth fighting for. One fight does not mean the end of a relationship. If anything, the fights that you are able to overcome are what strengthen your relationship because they teach you what core values you search for in your significant other, and which values your current boyfriend/girlfriend has or lacks. The best couples are the ones that can work through problems together, mutually trying to solve them, instead of criticizing each other constantly. You should always keep in mind is that you shouldn’t be quick give up on someone that you care for, cares for you, and appreciates you for who you are.