Posts Tagged ‘Nick Ianuzzi’

A Delicate Balance

Thursday, April 8th, 2010

Balance

I think that a large part of a relationship is time management. More specifically, I am talking about balancing time with friends and time spent with your significant other. It may seem like a very simple thing but it is important to make yourself aware of this issue.

Time with friends- Even if you are in a serious relationship, you still have to spend some time with your friends. One reason is that your boy/girl friend can very easily end a relationship and all of the time you spent with them may go down the drain. On the other hand, having friends is just as important as having a boy/girlfriend relationship. Good friends and great source of support and encouragement when things might not being going well with your significant other.

Time with girl/boy friend- It is also important to spend enough time with your significant other. The biggest reason is that not many people are willing to commit to a relationship if you are not willing to commit time to them. Also, if you don’t spend time with them, there is no way get to know each other.

As I said before, it is a balancing act. It is important to spent time with both your friends and our girl/boy friend and it is important that you consider both groups. Do this and you will pave the way to a more successful relationship.

-Nick Iannuzzi

Relasolutions

Tuesday, January 26th, 2010

Relationship Resolutions for the New Year

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The New Year presents a wonderful opportunity to set yearly goals and resolutions for many parts of your life. With that being said, New Years is also a great time to start your relationship off on the right note.

BE POSITIVE- Always try to be optimistic and positive. Try to give compliments when ever possible and avoid negative putdowns. Some times a negative comment is necessary but be sure to make it constructive and back it up with positive support.

GET RID OF A BAD HABITS- If you know of a habit that annoys your significant other then, by all means, Stop It! Set a goal to get of this pet peeve and your relationship will be more solid and enjoyable.

LISTEN- Listening is the best relationship advice that can be given in almost any circumstance. It is a simple thing that can make a huge difference in your relationship. If you devote all you attention to you partner, it shows that you care about them above anyone else. Don’t just “hear” some one, actually listen to what they are saying so that you can fully absorb what they are saying.

STOP TEXTING- If you are on a date or maybe just hanging out, DO NOT text other people. Some people may not be offended by texting but I assure you, no one enjoys it when their significant other is staring down at their cell phone. Instead, Show some respect and focus all of you attention on them. Texting divides your attention between several people and this does nothing but hurt a relationship.

TRY SOMETHING NEW- Trying new things can be hard, especially for those who have found their comfort zone in a relationship, but stepping out of this level of comfort may introduce you to a fun and exciting new activity that you can enjoy together for the rest of your life.

-Nick Iannuzzi